A Complex Political Odyssey: Remembering Lindsey Graham
The twisted trail of Lindsey Graham – During my four years studying Latin in high school, most of the vocabulary faded from memory. Yet one particular expression persists in my recollection: “De mortuis nil nisi bonum.” When rendered into English, this ancient saying advises us to speak only favorable things about those who have passed away.
This wisdom surfaced recently upon hearing of Senator Lindsey Graham’s passing. However, human existence rarely conforms to simple binaries. While numerous commendable qualities defined Graham’s character, his decades-long political trajectory proves too intricate for straightforward categorization as entirely virtuous or wholly flawed.
Early Days in Washington
Our paths first crossed when Graham served as a junior Republican representative from South Carolina, while I had just begun my role as co-host on CNN’s “Crossfire.” He rapidly emerged as one of our most welcomed visitors, distinguished by his intelligence, humor, and eloquence. During that era, he represented the moderate Republican archetype that many Americans found appealing.
Yet the Graham I came to know and respect bears little resemblance to the politician who dominated headlines over the past decade. His ideological compass shifted through numerous transformations, creating a narrative difficult to follow without losing track.
Even while maintaining conservative credentials, Graham demonstrated willingness to challenge his own party whenever circumstances demanded. Upon ascending to the Senate in 2003, he immediately established himself as a significant force. His friendship with fellow independent-minded Senator John McCain of Arizona deepened considerably. Together, these two Republicans soon aligned with Democratic Senator Joe Lieberman of Connecticut. Calling themselves the “Three Amigos,” they collaborated on legislation and journeyed internationally as advocates for robust American foreign policy.
The Trump Relationship: A Rollercoaster
Consequently, Graham’s early opposition to Donald Trump’s presidential ambitions surprised no one. This resistance intensified after Trump questioned McCain’s military service, claiming the senator was not truly a “war hero” due to his capture during Vietnam. “I like people who weren’t captured,” Trump remarked in July 2015. Graham responded forcefully, labeling Trump a “demagogue” and a “race-baiting, xenophobic, religious bigot.” During a CNN interview that same year, Graham offered this advice: “You know how you make America great again? Tell Donald Trump to go to hell.” He compared Trump securing the nomination to “being shot in the head” and subsequently revealed his decision to vote for independent candidate Evan McMullin in 2016 instead of either major party nominee.
Trump’s electoral victory triggered a remarkable transformation. As the New York Times reported, Graham transitioned “from Trump critic to acolyte.” He became among Trump’s most trusted advisors, a regular White House visitor, and an enthusiastic golf companion. The former best friend of McCain became Trump’s closest ally for four years—until January 6, 2021. On that fateful day, Graham executed another dramatic reversal.
Following the Capitol attack, Graham publicly distanced himself from Trump. “We’ve had a hell of a journey,” he informed journalists that evening. “I hate it to end this way. From my point of view, he’s been a consequential president.” Yet he added, “all I can say is count me out. Enough is enough.”
This separation proved temporary. Trump remained unchanged, but Graham shifted once more. Perhaps he missed the excitement of Oval Office encounters or casual conversations with the president on the golf course. Regardless of motivation, five months later Graham returned to Trump’s side. “Can we move forward without President Trump? The answer is no,” he declared in May 2021. He maintained this enthusiastic support until his final days. Just last month, after celebrating his South Carolina primary victory and thanking God, Graham humorously acknowledged Trump second: “Mr. President, you’re not far behind God.”
A Legacy of Contradictions
Graham’s unexpected death prompted an outpouring of praise from Senate colleagues across the aisle. Democrats particularly celebrated him as a dedicated patriot, tireless worker, effective advocate for South Carolina, champion of American global leadership, and someone universally well-liked.
These assessments hold merit. Yet equally valid is the characterization of Graham as one of Trump’s most significant enablers. Similar to Marco Rubio, JD Vance, and others, Graham transformed from a vocal Trump opponent who believed the candidate contradicted Republican principles into an ardent supporter—even after Trump’s actions led to a mob invading the Capitol, damage to the White House East Wing, and an additional $10 trillion added to national debt.
Writing about Graham requires honesty. He certainly served his nation faithfully, whether through military service or his congressional and senatorial careers. But his subsequent role as Trump’s wing man proved indispensable. Without Graham’s support, Trump would not occupy his current position.
Bill Press hosts The Bill Press Pod and authored “From the Left: A Life in the Crossfire.”
